i am starting to workout and its about time i realize i need to loose weight…i gained alot of weight when i was with some of my obese friends who eats nothing but fast food, go to buffet almost every dinner time, and play sport once in a long while and get tired very quickly. i hav not so bad arms, my wrist is kinda small and my shoulders are really really muscular like alot of body builders. i am 5′5, weigh around 190s, have big BIG belly with love handles, man boobs that rests on my belly, and my neck is just getting bigger. i use to be around 160s 2 years ago until i met my obese friends in a new city. i dont really blame 100% to them because i should know what i need to do, but still they were not much of help. i need motivation, and my bro is a wrestling champ in high school but he’s too busy with his own life to give time to me, help me loose belly, love handles, boobs, thighs and neck…….and help me gain muscles all over my body, its a cry for help so HELP…….PLZZZZZZZZ.