My Boyfriend has been making comments of how I have gained weight over the winter, I dont know what to say???
It has gotten to the point of him buying me a year membership at a local gym (he swears thats not the reason that he got it though) My arms, are now “trucker arms” my belly is “like buddah” and so on… He says he misses my old body– that hurts like hell when he says that and I do let him know… We were in the backyard last night and my neighbor was out and he commented quickly as to how “she must really work out” My body is by far disgusting and I still can turn some heads… He says alot of it is that he worries about my health which I think is crap but??? Ive gotten to the point to where I DONT want to loose any weight at all just to spite him. I do thnk I can loose a few pounds but Im not obsessed about it… He says hes trying not to be shallow but I honestly cant see any other way around this… He has a pot belly himself but I cant comment on that cuz he works out now.. I wanna believe that Im NOT his arm candy but it sure feels like it alot lately?? Any suggestions?