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i am getting harrassed and bullyed how to be emotionaly fit plz?

i am a male who is 24 years old i am getting bullyed and harrassed by my neighboor threats are being made i had egnoth and i have contacted the police and they and the local council will come round on monday to speak with me and him seperatly i hope
the problem is the buly knows know i am emotialy weak and depresed and that i not very strong in the mind they even know that i no longer recive help for my mental problems i plan to approch this by using the Protection from Harassment Act 1997 Disability Discrimination Act 1995 Criminal Justice & Public Order Act 1994 i not much of a legal person but will any of these stand a chance and how can i b strong minded and not b so weak i dont wanna turn round and hit to look strong just wanna cope with the crap untill the police and the council come round on monday
i am employing no contact with this person and my door is securly locked at all times and i allways have my phone near me
whats dvo?
asscerting my self seems to make him worse or am i just breaking up when he talks back to me?

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13 Responses to “i am getting harrassed and bullyed how to be emotionaly fit plz?”

  1. Koalabear said :

    good luck. it might make things worse after the police get involved. just report everything and take out a dvo if needed.

  2. G said :

    if you are a renter in an apt complex then talk to the management. chances are if he is bullying you then he is bullying others too and its in the best interest of the owner not to renew his lease.

    threatening language is a crime — if he is threatening you then the police need to know.

  3. tma t said :

    he’s a coward. when he finds out he could be arrested, i bet he’ll leave you alone. good luck.

  4. Xx~lovely~xX said :

    try doing some soul searching get to know yourself more, try doing one of those self test websites http://www.blogthings.com, know who you are and accept it, do the things you enjoy, your confiedence will go up, with the bully you can do what you ike but bullies will always be a part of your life until you address your sef confidence, i know loads of kids who change school because of bulying and each school they get bulied, thats because bullies can smell weakness and low self esteem, go on holiday, do something you’ve never done before, something that might scare you just a ittle, pick up a sport, do something that builds persoanlity, join a club of interest, keep yoursef busy, gradually your confidence will buid, the buly will see you dont care and he’ll move on,,,,,,, and your neighbour no matter what he does will never be abe to break your happiness cos he doesnt no the key to it, he only knows the key to your weakness, iteraly put your fears in a box and lock them in a cupboard go to the store and pick up a new you, good luck, nothing you can do abot the naigbour its all about u

  5. spiritwise333 said :

    You may need to have a Restraining Order put on your nut-bar neighbour. Talk to the police about this. It will force him not to have any contact with you. If he makes a threat or even talks to you after the R.O. you can have him arrested and charged.
    He sounds very unbalanced. Please be careful. Yes he is a coward, but if you try to confront him it could easily escalate into a physical fight and then you will BOTH be charged by the police. Stay away from him and whatever you do DO NOT respond to his verbal assaults. You can also keep a written record with the dates and times he was aggressive with you so that you can show it to the police.

  6. Daniel B said :

    Good luck! The police should sort everyting out for you. If you are anxious then maybe you should make an appointment to see a counsellor.

  7. Denise B said :

    put the words
    assertiveness techniques
    into one of the search engines.

  8. tony_rly said :

    try to remember this- the person who bullies you is actually doing this because he is emotionally weaker than you are.

    He is bullying you because you are better than he is and he resents that. Unfortunately, he is not intelligent enough to realise that he is actually a very weak person.

    If he attacks you again before Monday just ring 999 and ask for support. Under the Police Act they must respond. The Police will soon react if you continue to report on EACH AND EVERY occassion that you are threatened.

    Do not provoke this guy, remain calm, tell yourself that he is a moron and cannot win. When faced with this a few years ago I imagined my attacker standing naked – it worked!

    Best of luck- be strong and do not give in to a total w*nker!!

  9. nick c said :

    Most people don’t agree with this solution anymore, but I have always found that if confront bullies, they tend not to bully you anymore, you may get into a physical confrontation, but even if you lose, if you just get in a couple good licks, he’ll think twice about bothering you again, bullies prey on the weak, be strong, don’t be a victim.

  10. shane c said :

    You will always come across these people,but your doing the right thing by involving other people and not hitting him( you would be playing in to his hands).Would it be possible to stay with friends until Monday,just to get a good nights sleep.Good luck and try your best.

  11. nickoscar said :

    Show me a bully and I,ll show you a coward, confront him, tell him you,ll go round and knock his f****** head off, take a shovel with you, he,ll evacuate his bowells I can tell you, they,re bullies because they are allowed to get away with it, ask him if he and his family want help support a motorway bridge, give it to him straight.

  12. Max said :

    all that you need to do is leave him alone and if he threatens you, record it and get a restraining order against him. the tape of the threats will only make your case stronger.

  13. SOF+1 said :

    This is words from a man considered insane, and once upon a time sectioned. What I am trying to say is buy a bottle of Worcester sauce and focus your energies onto the sauce and you be one up on your neighbour. If your pass times include watching TV or listening to the radio.




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